Thursday, May 11, 2017

The Flea

There is nothing I love more than a cup of coffee and a flea market. When I know a flea market is in my future, my palms start sweating and my heart rate increases from the anticipation. I need to see everything. I will spend hours. Thus, there are only few people I will take with me to the flea. If you are going because you think I would like the company, but it's not really your "thing," consider going with someone else. If you are tired, go sit. Do not sigh, complain, remember an appointment you have to leave for, or roll your eyes if you rode with me. I am serious about my love of the flea.

People frequently ask, "What do you look for at the flea market?" The honest answer is that I have no idea. Whatever the perfect item is, it will let itself be known to me. Sometimes I leave with nothing, other times I am texting friends to see if they brought their minivan.

To me, the flea represents my best self. I am stress-free, relaxed and open to possibilities. A meat smoker in the shape of a giant steer, a camel door knocker, vintage clothes galore, a mid-century sectional sofa, a "No Nukes" belt buckle, are all treasures I passed on. The only regret was the belt buckle.

On the other hand I've acquired branding irons, a mermaid necklace, 1970's era orange fabric, low slung chairs, five rocking chairs, a Christmas tree topper from Sears, trivets in the shape of men's shirts and ties, an urn, sunglasses that make me look like Iris Apfel or Edna Mode, and the list goes on and on.

Although stores such as Kohl's and Target certainly have their place in my life, the things I buy from those stores are purely functional and typically consumable. My favorite things in  my life have been handed down, bartered for, picked up in an alley, purchased and acquired at art shows, bought at the side of the road, one of a kind stores or boutiques, and flea markets. Each item is a reflection of me.

Monday, April 17, 2017

People Along the Way

Today my grandmother is 101 years old. She is my favorite girl. She can't hear well or see all that well or get in and out of her wheelchair independently, but she is still fun to have a cup of coffee, a peach shake, or a glass of scotch with on occasion.

I was born into knowing her and I have been very blessed to have an excellent support system and family.

I am at a point in my life where I have become more reflective. I think about the meaning of meeting people and my interactions with them. Some people with stay in my life and some with pop in sporadically. There have been friendships, loves, colleagues, and connections of the soul. All will, eventually, result in loss.

Friday, February 24, 2017

An unafraid doer.

When one creates a list of 50 things, if one is smart, one leaves room for growth. I'm a doer. And I am unafraid.

There were things not on my list because I've already done them. I've taken a glass blowing class. I've gone hang-gliding. I've rafted, scuba dived, and jumped off a train bridge into a body of water (which I would not recommend).

When developing my list, I left room for future ideas - ones I couldn't imagine at the time.

I tried weaving.



Attended Bloody Mary Fest - in an attempt to perfect the Bloody Mary.

I never know what the next adventure will be.

Tuesday, January 24, 2017

Advocating for a Family

For the first time in my career, in a court of law, I had the privilege of advocating for a student. I testified on behalf of the student and waited to hear how the judge ruled. The judge thanked me for coming in to testify on behalf of the student and his educational needs. He thanked the student's sibling for testifying on his behalf. The judge ordered DCFS to override their policy and take care of the issue within 30 days.

The children were then granted the permission to be adopted by the foster parent. That's when I thought I would explode with joy. What an amazing day!

Monday, January 23, 2017

Making Herstory

Over 1 million men and women gathered in cities worldwide to stand up for civil rights and equality in hundreds of cities. Google Women's March 1/21/2017 for further information.

I marched with my daughter. It is a day I'll never forget. #whyImarch

Wednesday, January 11, 2017


When one makes a list of 50 things to do, it's always good to leave spaces. One never knows what may arise. This week I had the privilege of attending a once-in-a-lifetime event. Is was historic.

I wish the Obama's well. President Obama will probably go down as one of the greatest presidents of all time. I was thrilled to be there.

Wednesday, December 21, 2016

The Winter Solstice

I've always loved the Solstice. It is a time I try to sit quietly, reflect, let go and move on. I've packaged up my notes of gratitude and am starting with a clean jar. I am working on "slowing down". I'm backing off. I'm turning inward. I'm doing more things that bring me joy and fewer things that don't. I can't wait, but considering my goal is to slow down, I think I will be patient and wait. 
I will be still. I will be intentional.

Happy Solstice. I hope you take time to appreciate your blessings and to stand up to injustices.